"If you love someone let them go. If they return they were always yours". I used to think this was the most cliche quote known to man. Then life happened. I met a guy. I fell in love. We broke up. Never got over it. You know the typical girl meets boy scenario. Well maybe not the "never got over it part" but I digress.
The type of breakups that I can't stand to see are the breakups that dont actually entail a "break". You know what im talking about. You call yourselves remaining friends when in actuality your doing the same exact things that you were doing while you two were together. Talk on the phone everyday. Continue to give a shit about what the other is doing. And almost always through out the, the "no-break break up" as I call it, you two are still having sex. As much as a "No-No" as that is, its not really the point of this particular post.
"No-break break ups" happen because one or more parties cannot let go of the other. They have convinced themselves that they are meant to be. That the other person is the one for them. The break up was a mistake.... Now.... I am a firm believer in true love and I would be a liar if I said I wasnt obsessed with the romantic movie ending when they realize that they are still madly in love and can't live without eachother. If you notice the trend in those movies though, these people separate. They break up. And I mean a real break where there is no communication. They each live their separate lives and even date other people. And then when the time is right, fate brings them back together.
The moral of this story is you have to let go! How will fate take its course if we are constantly trying to direct the so-called movie that is our life? True love stands the test of time and distance. You just have to have faith that you will end up with who you are supposed to end up with. This is the way I picture it... Have you ever had a moment where you think about a person that you havent seen or talked to in forever? You have spent months even years without the person, youve lived your life, changed and even grew up a little but you never forgot about that person... and then BAM! the day after that person pops in your head you see them in aisle 6 of the grocery store. Fate is the only possible thing that brought you two to the same place at the same time. You werent trying to stay relevant in eachothers lives, fate is what brought you back. That to me is kind of like true love. If a relationship ends, let it. Let go. Live and experience life. Fate has a funny way of putting people back where they need to be.
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